最好的機會來自您認識和信任的人。這些提示詞幫助您建立真誠的連結、引導困難的對話,並培育在個人和商業上都帶來收益的關係。已在ChatGPT、Gemini和Claude上測試,讓您知道哪個模型最理解人際連結。
| 您想做的事 | 最適合 |
|---|---|
| 視覺化和強化人脈 | Gemini |
| 撰寫有效的冷觸及訊息 | ChatGPT |
| 超越閒聊的深度對話 | Claude |
| 找到潛在導師並建立關係 | ChatGPT |
| 在不煩人的情況下保持聯繫 | Gemini |
| 在人際關係中設定健康的界線 | Claude |
提示詞
視覺化和強化人脈
Help me map and strengthen my professional network. Current network: [list 10-15 key contacts with role, relationship strength, and last interaction] Career goals: [what you're working toward] Industry: [your field] Networking comfort level: [introvert / extrovert / selective] Time available for networking: [hours per week] Create: 1. A network map organized by: inner circle, active contacts, dormant connections 2. Which 5 relationships to prioritize strengthening and why 3. 3 'structural holes' in your network (types of people you're missing) 4. A monthly outreach schedule with specific contact cadences 5. Reconnection messages for 3 dormant contacts (warm, not cringey) 6. A 'network health' dashboard to track relationship maintenance
最適合: GEMINI
Gemini建立最結構化的視覺化人脈地圖,有清晰的分類系統。設計適合不同個性類型的實用且可持續的聯繫排程。
已測試 Feb 15, 2026
進階技巧
不只按你得到什麼來繪製人脈,也按你給每個人什麼。持續提供價值的人建立最強的人脈。AI能幫助識別您能獨特提供給每個人脈的東西。
撰寫有效的冷觸及訊息
Help me write a cold outreach message to someone I admire but don't know. Who I'm reaching out to: [their role, company, and why they matter to me] Platform: [email / LinkedIn / Twitter DM] What I want: [advice / mentorship / collaboration / introduction / coffee chat] What I bring: [what makes me worth their time] Common ground: [anything you share — school, interests, mutual connections] Tone I want: [professional / casual / enthusiastic] Write: 1. 3 outreach message versions (each under 100 words) 2. A subject line or opening hook for each version 3. Why each version works and which to use in which situation 4. What NOT to say (common cold outreach mistakes) 5. A follow-up message if they don't respond (sent 5-7 days later) 6. How to continue the conversation if they DO respond
最適合: CHATGPT
ChatGPT建立最自然的冷觸及訊息。感覺個人化和具體而非模板產生的,大幅提升回覆率。
已測試 Feb 15, 2026
進階技巧
具體提及對方公開發表或說過的東西。「我尊敬您的工作」不如「您在[活動]的演講很精彩」。具體性證明了真正的關心。
超越閒聊的深度對話
Help me have more meaningful conversations instead of surface-level small talk. Context: [networking event / dinner party / work social / first date / new colleague] My personality: [introvert / extrovert / ambivert] What I struggle with: [starting conversations / keeping them going / asking deeper questions] Topics I'm comfortable with: [work, hobbies, current events, etc.] Goal for the interaction: [build rapport / learn something / make a friend / find common ground] Provide: 1. 5 conversation starters that skip small talk and go straight to interesting 2. 5 follow-up questions that deepen any answer (the 'tell me more' questions) 3. How to share about yourself without monologuing 4. Graceful exit phrases for conversations that aren't working 5. Body language and active listening tips (what to do, not just what to say) 6. A post-event follow-up message template that references the conversation
最適合: CLAUDE
Claude產生最深思熟慮和真正有趣的對話問題。提供感覺自然和好奇的開場,而非面試式的,避免了腳本化社交的最大風險。
已測試 Feb 15, 2026
進階技巧
用「你現在對什麼事情感到興奮?」取代「你做什麼工作?」。前者能活躍對方,後者只讓人背誦職稱。問題的品質決定對話的品質。
找到潛在導師並建立關係
Help me find and build a mentorship relationship. What I need guidance on: [specific areas for growth] Ideal mentor profile: [industry, experience level, skills] Mentors I admire: [people you'd love to learn from, even if aspirational] What I can offer in return: [your skills, time, perspective] Previous mentorship experience: [positive or negative past experiences] Preferred format: [formal / informal / group / peer] Create: 1. A mentor persona: exactly what kind of mentor would accelerate your growth 2. 5 places to find mentors in your field (beyond 'ask at work') 3. An initial outreach message that doesn't ask 'will you be my mentor?' 4. A first meeting agenda that demonstrates you're worth investing in 5. How to structure ongoing mentorship (frequency, format, preparation) 6. How to be a great mentee (the habits that make mentors want to keep helping)
最適合: CHATGPT
Claudeはメンター探しのアドバイスが最も思慮深く、押しつけがましくない自然な関係構築アプローチを提案します。
已測試 Feb 15, 2026
進階技巧
不要直接問「當我的導師好嗎?」,先問一個具體的問題。最好的導師關係來自自然的關係。
在不煩人的情況下保持聯繫
Help me maintain important relationships without letting them go dormant. Key relationships to maintain: [list 10-15 people with role and importance] Current problem: [I lose touch / I only reach out when I need something / I feel awkward reconnecting] Communication style: [texter / caller / emailer / in-person] Schedule: [how much time you can dedicate weekly] Big life events: [anything coming up for people in your network] Build: 1. A relationship CRM: categorize contacts by closeness and contact frequency 2. A monthly touchpoint calendar with specific actions for each person 3. 5 'no-ask' message templates: ways to add value without wanting anything 4. Seasonal check-in scripts for different relationship types 5. How to reconnect with someone you haven't talked to in 6+ months 6. A birthday and milestone tracking system
最適合: GEMINI
Gemini建立最有組織的關係管理系統,提供追蹤觸點的實用日曆和提醒。在Google Sheets或Notion中可用的CRM風格模板很有效。
已測試 Feb 15, 2026
進階技巧
為維持聯繫定期分享有價值的東西——文章、機會、介紹。純粹「打個招呼」的訊息不如分享具體價值的訊息有效。
在人際關係中設定健康的界線
Help me set and maintain healthy boundaries. Relationship type: [work / family / friendship / romantic] The boundary I need to set: [what behavior needs to change] Why I struggle with this: [guilt / conflict avoidance / fear of losing the relationship] Previous attempts: [have you tried setting this boundary before] The person's likely reaction: [supportive / resistant / dismissive / angry] Non-negotiable: [where you absolutely won't compromise] Provide: 1. A clear boundary statement using 'I' language (not accusatory) 2. How to deliver it: timing, setting, and tone 3. How to respond to pushback (3 common pushback tactics and responses) 4. How to enforce the boundary when it's tested 5. Self-care plan for the emotional toll of setting boundaries 6. How to tell the difference between healthy flexibility and giving in
最適合: CLAUDE
Claude能以最細膩的情感處理界線設定的對話。它在認可情況的困難的同時,提供堅定、清晰且尊重雙方的語言。
已測試 Feb 15, 2026
進階技巧
沒有後果的界線只是建議。包含如果界線被越過時您會怎麼做,而不僅是您會說什麼。AI可以幫您定義堅定但適度的後果。
基於實際測試結果 — 非假設推測。 查看測試方法
Gemini
Best for network mapping and relationship management systems. Creates organized tracking templates and contact schedules that make relationship maintenance systematic.
結果來源: Gemini 2.0 Flash · 已測試 Feb 15, 2026ChatGPT
Best for cold outreach and mentorship building. Writes the most natural, personal messages that get responses. Its scripts feel authentic rather than template-generated.
結果來源: GPT-4o · 已測試 Feb 15, 2026Claude
Best for deep conversations and boundary setting. Handles emotional complexity with nuance and provides conversation guidance that feels genuine rather than scripted.
結果來源: Claude 3.5 Sonnet · 已測試 Feb 15, 2026Grok
Gives direct communication tips and boundary-setting advice without excessive diplomacy. Excellent at identifying toxic relationship dynamics, though less nuanced on cultural sensitivity and emotional intelligence than Gemini.
結果來源: Grok 2 · 已測試 Feb 15, 2026Give before you ask. The strongest networks are built on generosity. Before asking for anything, find 3 ways to help someone. Share an article, make an introduction, or offer your expertise. AI can help you identify what you uniquely have to offer.
Quality over quantity, always. 10 genuine relationships beat 500 LinkedIn connections. Focus on deepening a few key relationships rather than collecting contacts. AI can help you identify which relationships deserve your investment.
Follow up within 24 hours or not at all. The energy of a great conversation fades fast. Send a quick follow-up message the same day or the next morning. After 3 days, the window for natural follow-up closes.