진정한 관계는 거래가 아니라 진정성을 기반으로 구축됩니다. 이 프롬프트들은 네트워크를 전략적으로 관리하고, 의미 있는 아웃리치를 작성하며, 더 깊은 대화를 나누도록 도와줍니다. ChatGPT, Gemini, Claude에서 테스트되었습니다.
| 하고 싶은 것 | 최적 용도 |
|---|---|
| Map and strengthen your network | Gemini |
| Write effective cold outreach messages | ChatGPT |
| Move beyond small talk | Claude |
| Find and approach potential mentors | ChatGPT |
| Stay in touch without being annoying | Gemini |
| Set healthy boundaries in relationships | Claude |
프롬프트
Map and strengthen your network
Help me map and strengthen my professional network. Current network: [list 10-15 key contacts with role, relationship strength, and last interaction] Career goals: [what you're working toward] Industry: [your field] Networking comfort level: [introvert / extrovert / selective] Time available for networking: [hours per week] Create: 1. A network map organized by: inner circle, active contacts, dormant connections 2. Which 5 relationships to prioritize strengthening and why 3. 3 'structural holes' in your network (types of people you're missing) 4. A monthly outreach schedule with specific contact cadences 5. Reconnection messages for 3 dormant contacts (warm, not cringey) 6. A 'network health' dashboard to track relationship maintenance
최적 용도: GEMINI
Gemini creates the most structured and visual network maps with clear categorization systems. Its outreach schedules are practical and sustainable for different personality types.
테스트 완료 Feb 15, 2026
프로 팁
Map your network by what you GIVE to each person, not just what you get. People who consistently provide value build the strongest networks. AI can help you identify what you uniquely offer each connection.
Write effective cold outreach messages
Help me write a cold outreach message to someone I admire but don't know. Who I'm reaching out to: [their role, company, and why they matter to me] Platform: [email / LinkedIn / Twitter DM] What I want: [advice / mentorship / collaboration / introduction / coffee chat] What I bring: [what makes me worth their time] Common ground: [anything you share — school, interests, mutual connections] Tone I want: [professional / casual / enthusiastic] Write: 1. 3 outreach message versions (each under 100 words) 2. A subject line or opening hook for each version 3. Why each version works and which to use in which situation 4. What NOT to say (common cold outreach mistakes) 5. A follow-up message if they don't respond (sent 5-7 days later) 6. How to continue the conversation if they DO respond
최적 용도: CHATGPT
ChatGPT writes the most natural cold outreach messages. They feel personal and specific rather than template-generated, which dramatically improves response rates.
테스트 완료 Feb 15, 2026
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Reference something specific they've created or said publicly. 'I loved your talk at [event]' beats 'I admire your work.' Specificity signals that you actually care, not just mass-messaging people.
Move beyond small talk
Help me have more meaningful conversations instead of surface-level small talk. Context: [networking event / dinner party / work social / first date / new colleague] My personality: [introvert / extrovert / ambivert] What I struggle with: [starting conversations / keeping them going / asking deeper questions] Topics I'm comfortable with: [work, hobbies, current events, etc.] Goal for the interaction: [build rapport / learn something / make a friend / find common ground] Provide: 1. 5 conversation starters that skip small talk and go straight to interesting 2. 5 follow-up questions that deepen any answer (the 'tell me more' questions) 3. How to share about yourself without monologuing 4. Graceful exit phrases for conversations that aren't working 5. Body language and active listening tips (what to do, not just what to say) 6. A post-event follow-up message template that references the conversation
최적 용도: CLAUDE
Claude generates the most thoughtful and genuinely interesting conversation questions. Its starters feel natural and curious rather than interview-like, which is the biggest risk with scripted networking.
테스트 완료 Feb 15, 2026
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Ask 'What are you excited about right now?' instead of 'What do you do?' The first question lights people up. The second makes them recite their job title. The quality of your question determines the quality of the conversation.
Find and approach potential mentors
Help me find and build a mentorship relationship. What I need guidance on: [specific areas for growth] Ideal mentor profile: [industry, experience level, skills] Mentors I admire: [people you'd love to learn from, even if aspirational] What I can offer in return: [your skills, time, perspective] Previous mentorship experience: [positive or negative past experiences] Preferred format: [formal / informal / group / peer] Create: 1. A mentor persona: exactly what kind of mentor would accelerate your growth 2. 5 places to find mentors in your field (beyond 'ask at work') 3. An initial outreach message that doesn't ask 'will you be my mentor?' 4. A first meeting agenda that demonstrates you're worth investing in 5. How to structure ongoing mentorship (frequency, format, preparation) 6. How to be a great mentee (the habits that make mentors want to keep helping)
최적 용도: CHATGPT
ChatGPT writes the most effective mentorship outreach that doesn't feel presumptuous. Its first meeting agendas show the mentor that you're prepared and respectful of their time.
테스트 완료 Feb 15, 2026
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Never ask someone to 'be your mentor' in the first interaction. Instead, ask a specific question. If they give a great answer, ask another. Mentorship grows organically from genuine interest, not formal requests.
Stay in touch without being annoying
Help me maintain important relationships without letting them go dormant. Key relationships to maintain: [list 10-15 people with role and importance] Current problem: [I lose touch / I only reach out when I need something / I feel awkward reconnecting] Communication style: [texter / caller / emailer / in-person] Schedule: [how much time you can dedicate weekly] Big life events: [anything coming up for people in your network] Build: 1. A relationship CRM: categorize contacts by closeness and contact frequency 2. A monthly touchpoint calendar with specific actions for each person 3. 5 'no-ask' message templates: ways to add value without wanting anything 4. Seasonal check-in scripts for different relationship types 5. How to reconnect with someone you haven't talked to in 6+ months 6. A birthday and milestone tracking system
최적 용도: GEMINI
Gemini creates the most organized relationship management systems with practical calendars and reminders. Its CRM-style templates work well in Google Sheets or Notion for tracking touchpoints.
테스트 완료 Feb 15, 2026
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The best time to strengthen a relationship is when you DON'T need anything. Send an article they'd find interesting, congratulate a win, or share something funny. People remember who shows up without an agenda.
Set healthy boundaries in relationships
Help me set and maintain healthy boundaries. Relationship type: [work / family / friendship / romantic] The boundary I need to set: [what behavior needs to change] Why I struggle with this: [guilt / conflict avoidance / fear of losing the relationship] Previous attempts: [have you tried setting this boundary before] The person's likely reaction: [supportive / resistant / dismissive / angry] Non-negotiable: [where you absolutely won't compromise] Provide: 1. A clear boundary statement using 'I' language (not accusatory) 2. How to deliver it: timing, setting, and tone 3. How to respond to pushback (3 common pushback tactics and responses) 4. How to enforce the boundary when it's tested 5. Self-care plan for the emotional toll of setting boundaries 6. How to tell the difference between healthy flexibility and giving in
최적 용도: CLAUDE
Claude handles boundary-setting conversations with the most emotional nuance. It validates the difficulty of the situation while providing firm, clear language that respects both parties.
테스트 완료 Feb 15, 2026
프로 팁
A boundary without a consequence is just a suggestion. Include what you'll DO if the boundary is crossed, not just what you'll say. AI can help you define consequences that are firm but proportional.
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Gemini
Best for network mapping and relationship management systems. Creates organized tracking templates and contact schedules that make relationship maintenance systematic.
결과 출처: Gemini 2.0 Flash · 테스트 완료 Feb 15, 2026ChatGPT
Best for cold outreach and mentorship building. Writes the most natural, personal messages that get responses. Its scripts feel authentic rather than template-generated.
결과 출처: GPT-4o · 테스트 완료 Feb 15, 2026Claude
Best for deep conversations and boundary setting. Handles emotional complexity with nuance and provides conversation guidance that feels genuine rather than scripted.
결과 출처: Claude 3.5 Sonnet · 테스트 완료 Feb 15, 2026Grok
Gives direct communication tips and boundary-setting advice without excessive diplomacy. Excellent at identifying toxic relationship dynamics, though less nuanced on cultural sensitivity and emotional intelligence than Gemini.
결과 출처: Grok 2 · 테스트 완료 Feb 15, 2026Give before you ask. The strongest networks are built on generosity. Before asking for anything, find 3 ways to help someone. Share an article, make an introduction, or offer your expertise. AI can help you identify what you uniquely have to offer.
Quality over quantity, always. 10 genuine relationships beat 500 LinkedIn connections. Focus on deepening a few key relationships rather than collecting contacts. AI can help you identify which relationships deserve your investment.
Follow up within 24 hours or not at all. The energy of a great conversation fades fast. Send a quick follow-up message the same day or the next morning. After 3 days, the window for natural follow-up closes.